Singing relationships

If I should write a piece of music about the our 16 years of marriage, I would start right away, even though I have never written music. Nobody learnt me how to do it. Nobody learnt me how to create a good marriage. I trusted and I still trust my intuition.

Melodies would just come and come just how an inner voice told me how and what to do in my marriage in order to make everyone winner. Would contain low notes and high ones, quick races, strolls, soft tones, trombones, drums and organ.

Would contain overtones, little tones flirting with each other, deep silence before and after storms, would contain excitement, loud maturity, serenity, passion, flying arround and barely playable depths. But the whole piece would be caracterized as harmonius, voices leading, sometimes echoing or following each other. Sometimes cymbal wakes up the whole orchestra.

Compessionate, caressing, sometimes passionate melodies alternated with rumbling parts, they are also needed, otherwise the whole piece would become boring, and orchestra becomes sleepy.

 If a note walks away, he quickly finds his way to home and harmony is restored. The maestro of the orchestra is the feeling we felt when said YES 16 years ago, even if that feeling was born earlier. This feeling paints over and over again the piece, being the shadows of love, passion, trust, respect, and till this feeling is positive, the melody will be heard. Till we hear the melody, I believe that getting old together is possible and I make all efforts to be this way.

Let us stop and give thanks that in this rushing world we can rely on one thing for sure, that is the love for each other. Celebrate with us and keep in mind, that for a well working relationship or marriage, you have to do each day something!

Can this song be perfect? No, and that is not expected either. But sometimes retuning is needed in order to adapt to new situations. The most important thing is to not play false.

Can harmony be created easily? No, but you always can recall from memory what you did when harmony existed and tend to this always.

In our symphony we let each other to do his/her solo, but always try to remain between limits, to tolerate the other's solo, that is not always goog to listen, but humor, our strengths and reciprocal respect always help us.

If you would characterize your marriage, relationship, what kind of music would it be?

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